Most couples never think about that question. Normally, we think about ourselves. Am I happy? Does she/he make me happy, fulfil me? Why can’t he/she be like A. B or C?
But we should remember “Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” – Mark 9:10
And since God has joined us, lets ask Him why, if we do not know. He does.
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
— Jer 29:11
God has good plans for your marriage.